Monday, January 14, 2008

Assuming

How great the power of assuming. Here i write about its power and greatness in decieving and how this decieving feels so real to our mind like a rose where its beautiful but has thorns on its stems

Why is it so powerful?

First, letme give you an illustration. This man, by the name of Valthier, wanted to make a birthday party for his girlfriend. Obviously, he wouldn't be able to do all this by himself, so he called up his girlfriend's best friend to work together with him to plan this party right. After planning and planning, everything is almost done. What is left is only the invitation to friends and who should come. Both are tired throughout the day after all the planning and buying of stuffs. Its almost party time in a few hours time, and not even a single invitation call was made. Both decide to go home and take a rest and at the same time make those invitation calls to their friends. When both reached home, both were so tempted to take a short nap. (Here comes its POWER!) Valthier here was even more tempted to go straight to bed, and without any thinking of the invitation because he ASSUME that his girlfriend's best friend would make all the calls for him, he jumps up onto his bed and snoozed off. Meanwhile at the other end, she did the similiar same thing. Thinking that Valthier would already be making the calls right now, she just jumps on the couch and watch the O.C. on television. Since both ASSUME the other did those calls, in the end, nobody made those calls and eventually no one came at all. Valthier's girlfriend herself didnt even come and was mad because She thought that Valthier had forgotten her birthday (see how this can become so real even though it is just her thinking)

ALL CHARACTERS AND STORY IS FICTIONAL AND NONE OF IT ARE TRUE. ALL ARE MADE UP CHARACTERS AND ALSO STORY.

I'm pretty sure this ASSUMING thing has happened to you in the past. And once it actually had happen, it became a real mess. Better prevent than for it to happen right?

One thing you must always do is never ASSUME or THOUGHT or create a THEORY or GUESS anything before hand. It may seem very very real to your mind, and most of the time you would most probably think that you are always right, this could just be a mistake if you do not CHECK on whatever you are soppose to be doing.

ALWAYS CHECK, and NEVER ASSUME.

Another thing is, it is much more convenient and money saving, and timesaving, and energysaving, for YOU to just SMS or give your Boss, Leaders, Captain, Master, Head, and so on a call to tell them that you are going on a holiday next week or won't be able to make it for dinner reunion and so on rather than the Boss, Leaders and so on to call or SMS you one by one just to ask you those things.

4:51 PM;;
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